There are many ways to make your wedding special: an original script inspired by your favorite film, a unique venue decoration, a custom‐made wedding dress. But there is something more important than all these details, something that will truly make your wedding special—even if you show up for the registration in jeans and sneakers—and that is your wedding vow.
There are no strict rules or limitations when it comes to writing wedding vows. Your love story is unique, as are your feelings—so it is up to you to decide what your vows will be like.
Not everyone is naturally gifted at expressing their emotions in words, but that’s okay! The main thing is—be sincere! And do not search for ready-made vows on the internet; your partner certainly deserves something personal.
During the wedding planning process, the minds of the newlyweds are occupied with a million details, and that’s completely normal since there is so much to consider and nothing should be forgotten. In the pre-wedding rush, there is a risk of postponing writing your wedding vows until the last minute, but we do not recommend that. Give yourself enough time, because this is one of the most memorable and touching moments of the celebration that will remain in your memory forever.
Our tips will help you write your wedding vows with ease and pleasure.
1. Be Yourself
Speak to your beloved in the language you use in everyday life. Every couple has its own phrases, inside jokes, song lyrics, and movie quotes that only the two of you understand. You may borrow a few lines from famous poets or writers, but the key is not to overdo it.
If you are having a wedding in Italy, a wonderful idea is to profess your love to your partner in Italian.
Here are a few examples:
- Sei il fiore piů bello nel giardino dei miei pensieri. – You are the most beautiful flower in the garden of my thoughts.
- Se alzo gli occhi al cielo vedo migliaia di stelle, ma quando incontro i tuoi occhi, vedo la stella più bella. – When I look up to the sky, I see thousands of stars, but when I meet your eyes, I see the most beautiful star.
- La felicità esiste perché esisti tu. – Happiness exists because you exist.
- Come il pittore ama i suoi colori, io amo te, mia piccola rubacuori… – Just as a painter loves his colors, I love you, my little heart-stealer…
- Mi sono innamorato di te appena ti ho visto. Mi rinnamorerò di te ogni volta che ti vedrò. – I fell in love with you the moment I saw you. I will fall in love with you all over again every time I see you.
- Ti amo. Tre secondi per dirlo. Tre ore per spiegarlo. E una vita intera per provarlo. – I love you. Three seconds to say it, three hours to explain it, and a lifetime to prove it.
And of course, Italian songs are an endless source of inspiration for wedding vows:
Grande Amore – “il Volo”
Senza più timore te lo voglio urlare questo grande amore / Without fear, I want to shout this great love to you
Amore, solo amore è quello che sento / Love, only love is what I feel
Dimmi perché quando penso, penso solo a te / Tell me why when I think, I think only of you
Dimmi perché quando vedo, vedo solo te / Tell me why when I see, I see only you
Dimmi perché quando credo, credo solo in te grande amore / Tell me why when I believe, I believe only in you, my great love
Nek – “Abbracciami”
I miei giorni spesi con te / The days I spent with you
Non c’è stata un’ora inutile / Not a single hour was wasted
Sono tutti vivi dentro me / They are all alive inside me
Stanotte / Tonight
E tu sei più bella che mai / And you are more beautiful than ever
Francesco Renga – “Era una vita che ti stavo aspettando”
Penso che forse non te l’ho mai detto / I think maybe I never told you
Ma era una vita che ti stavo aspettando / But I have been waiting for you all my life
Perché non solo sei bellissima / Because not only are you beautiful
Ma la più bella del mondo / But the most beautiful in the world
Mentre ti guardo sognare, io penso / While I watch you dream, I think
Era una vita che ti stavo aspettando / I have been waiting for you all my life
Stringimi adesso / Hold me close now
2. Your Wedding Vow Can Tell the Story of Your Love
Share how you met, what you felt the first time you saw each other, where your first date was, when you realized it was love, and how the proposal happened. You don’t have to list every single detail from beginning to end; choose a few moments that are most significant to you.
3. Make a Promise
After all, these are wedding vows, right? Promise! Promise eternal love and, say, three children, or to give her a new iPhone every year, or to cook her favorite borscht every week, to support each other in sorrow and joy, to open a family Georgian restaurant if that’s your dream, to skydive together, to move to another country, to start a joint relationship blog, or to drop everything and set off on a round-the-world yacht trip—there are no rules! But remember, it’s best not to make promises you can’t keep! 😉
- Example of a traditional groom’s wedding vow: I vow to be a loving and tender husband, an honest and reliable friend, to care for you, support you, and share everything that fate has in store for us.
- Example of a non-traditional groom’s wedding vow: I vow not to leave my socks around, always let you have time with your friends, never sing in the car (I know I have no sense of pitch!), and not to be jealous of your best friend. And I also vow to take you to Cambodia, to that very temple where “Lara Croft” was filmed.
- Example of a traditional bride’s wedding vow: I vow to be a loving and faithful life partner, to share in your sorrows and joys, always be your reliable support, and keep the flame of our family hearth burning.
- Example of a non-traditional bride’s wedding vow: I vow not to make too much noise in the mornings when I wake up before you, to go to every rock concert and festival with you, and always prepare sushi for you when you’re feeling under the weather. And I promise that we will never be apart for more than a week because of my business trips.
4. Tell Us More About Your Chosen One
Why did you decide to tie your fate to this person? What makes them special? What qualities of theirs inspire your admiration and respect? What do you love about them? Do they understand you like no one else does, do you root for the same football team, or did you both embark on the Camino de Santiago together? Share it all!
5. Keep Time in Mind
Your wedding vow should not be too long. The ideal duration is 3–4 minutes. Yes, you can talk about love forever, but remember that brevity is the soul of wit!
Be sure to read your vow aloud several times. Rehearse like a true actor, take your time, and read with pauses.
6. Plan the Details
You can recite your vow during the marriage registration or choose another moment, such as during or after the celebratory lunch. Think about whether you will bring a written copy with you or if your wedding coordinator will provide it at the right moment, and whether you will use a microphone or not.
A wedding vow can be complemented by a ritual of lighting the family hearth. Another romantic option is to release sky lanterns.
We wish you the best of luck in writing your wedding vow, and to ensure that your marriage ceremony is perfect—contact our agency, as we have been making dream weddings in Italy come true for over 7 years!
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Why Choose the WowItaly Weddings Team for Organizing a Wedding in Italy?
WowItaly— it’s when you feel like shouting Wow! because of the genuine emotion, the real beauty of nature, history, art, and the authentic atmosphere of Italy.
- We simplified the process. You don’t need to arrive weeks in advance to prepare all the documents. You can fly in just 2 days before the wedding and leave all document matters to the professionals.
- We will prepare all the documents remotely in just one month. Forget about bureaucratic problems—enjoy your love!
- We work transparently. In our package offers there are no hidden clauses or tricks. We include absolutely every service necessary for organizing a beautiful, cozy wedding in Italy. We honestly and openly state that our packages do not include: flights, hotel accommodation, or restaurant dinners. Why? Because we don’t know where you are flying from, what hotels you prefer, or what type of restaurant you want. Why pay extra for services you won’t need?
- We meet deadlines. We provide your certificate of registered marriage in Italy within one month after the wedding, and all photos within three months. All our obligations are regulated by a contract. We don’t just promise—we take responsibility for our words.
- We love our work for the incredible happiness and the atmosphere of love it brings. For the opportunity to see the joyful eyes of our clients and to make your dream wedding in Italy come true. In a place where family and marriage remain the highest values, where European civilization began, and where true love and sincere emotions are truly appreciated.
Planning your wedding with WowItaly will be an easy and enjoyable process! Write or call (+39 334 840 20 86 / hello@wowitaly-weddings.com) to book your free consultation on organizing your wedding in Italy.
